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How to Write a Wife Swapping Profile That Gets Replies

What makes a swapping profile stand out: location, likes and dislikes, turn-ons and photos.

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What makes a good swapping profile?

The do's and don'ts of writing a good wife swapping and swingers profile, with tips for new couples. What makes a good profile? Why does someone else's stand out? Here are some tips.

The first thing to remember is this is supposed to be fun! It's not a CV. If your profile comes across as stuffy, other couples will think the same and ignore it. So, some basic tips:

Tips for writing your profile

  • Location - as daft as it sounds, some people don't say how far they'll travel, so if you live in Portsmouth you're not going to want to travel to Scotland to swap partners or maybe you are?
  • Dislikes - if you're non-smokers and looking for others make sure you say, also drinking or other recreational substances - if people don't know how will you find a good like-minded couple?
  • Type of Contacts - extremely important decide on the type of swapping lifestyle you want to try, and remember you can change your profile at any time!
  • Turn Ons - a biggy here, what do you like? Anal sex, oral, bareback, S&M - they are all important so make sure you tell other swap couples your likes.
  • Friends or just sex - If you're looking for friends/swapping partners make sure you tell people or if you are just after a one off swap again make it clear!
  • Photos - We have NO restrictions on the amount of photos you can post within your profile, so put up as many as you like and as we are all adults here we also have no restrictions on the content of the photos as long as it's not obscene and they are yours!

Ready to try a wife swapping session?

So put some thought into your profile. Don't rush it: you don't have to finish it when you join. Have a look at what others have written, then come back and write your own. Have fun and do it together!

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What you get as a member

Couples putting together their first profile get all of this.

Free members

  • Write your profile free - Basic members can build a full profile at no cost.
  • Finish it in your own time - You don't have to complete your profile the day you join.
  • Read other couples' profiles - Browse profiles for ideas before you write your own.
  • Matches based on your profile - Each day you'll see couples who fit what you've written.
  • Replies to your profile - Send a set number of messages each day, and reply to VIPs free.
  • A verified profile - Verify your ID free so couples trust your profile.

Paid members also get

  • Get found by local couples - Paid members can search by town, distance and experience.
  • Reply to every couple - Paid members can answer every couple who writes to them.
  • Profile tips from other swingers - Ask in the members' chat rooms or a group chat of up to 50.
  • Who liked your new profile - See which couples have liked what you wrote.

Wife swapping profile questions

How far should we say we'll travel?

Be specific. If you live in Portsmouth, say whether you'd travel to Scotland or only locally.

Should we mention dislikes?

Yes, like smoking, drinking or anything else you'd rather avoid.

How many photos can we add?

There's no limit on photos, as long as they're legal and yours.

Should we say if we want friends or just sex?

Yes. Make it clear whether you want regular swapping friends or a one-off.

Can we change our profile later?

Yes, you can change your profile at any time.

Do we need to finish our profile when we join?

No. Look around first, then come back and write it.

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