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Soft Swap Wife Swapping: Swapping Without Full Sex

Soft swapping lets couples play with new partners while saving full sex for each other.

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A few of the members on the site right now.

Where many new couples start

Soft swap swingers are often where new couples start wife swapping, as they don't know whether they can handle seeing, or knowing, that their partner is having full sex with someone else.

Wife swapping doesn't have to end in sex with a swapped partner. A soft swap can be just as exciting: you get to explore the sensations of a first time with a new partner, while saving intercourse for your own wife or husband.

Want to see soft swapping couples now? Use the free link and check out photos from couples who enjoy soft swap meets.

Soft swap options

  • Soft Swap - swapped partners can touch and physically interact, including oral sex and kissing but with no penetration
  • Girl / Girl - this is now very common and is just sexual action between the swopping females with the male partners watching
  • Same Room - swapped partners get to perform and be watched or watch the other partners playing and then often the real couples get back together for full sex to finish

Ready to try a soft swap wife swapping session?

Many couples write something like "we're into soft swapping, but who knows, if we find the right couple that might change". Until the night comes, you don't know how things will unfold. Be honest and remember no means no, which is why it's so important to know how everyone feels before you start.

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What you get as a member

New couples trying a soft swap, and those who love one, can use all this.

Free members

  • Soft swap couples join free - No fee for a basic soft swap membership.
  • Your soft swap limits - Say soft swap only, or open to more, and post photos.
  • Soft swapping couples - Browse couples who want soft swap meets.
  • Soft swap suggestions - Every day you'll see couples who suit a soft swap.
  • Message soft swap couples - A daily allowance for messages to couples, and VIP replies are free.
  • Trusted soft swappers - Free ID verification, and admins check each soft swap couple.

Paid members also get

  • Soft swappers near you - Find soft swap couples by town, distance, experience and their limits.
  • No limit on soft swap messages - Message every soft swap couple you like.
  • Soft swap chat - The chat rooms, and group chats of up to 50 for new couples.
  • Couples who liked your soft swap ad - Find out which soft swappers have liked your ad.

Soft swap questions

What happens in a soft swap?

Swapped partners can touch, kiss and give oral, but there's no penetration with anyone but your own partner.

Why do new couples start with a soft swap?

It lets them try swapping without full sex, and find out how they feel about seeing their partner with someone else.

What is a girl-on-girl soft swap?

Only the women play together while the men watch, which is now very common.

Do soft swaps happen in the same room?

Often, yes. Couples watch each other play, then get back together with their own partner to finish.

Can a soft swap turn into a full swap?

It can, if everyone wants it on the night. But no means no, so agree limits first.

How do we say we only soft swap?

Put it clearly in your profile, and say it again before you meet.

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