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Cuckolded Husband Guide: What Cuckolding Involves

Is being a cuckolded husband really for you? An insider's guide to the cuckold lifestyle for husbands, wives and new couples.

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Is being a cuckolded husband for you?

It's something many husbands think about, but is being a cuckolded husband really for you? What starts as a great partnership can change, or get stronger. Want to try? Then read these tips.

For most swingers, being a cuckolded husband is just about watching and enjoying the show, and that's probably about right. But like most things, cuckolding has plenty of twists and turns that can lead a couple down a completely different road, and as they say, knowledge is power!

The cuckold and cuckolder's guide

Here's an insider's view of what's expected of a cuckolded husband. It should help new swingers and couples thinking about the lifestyle, and as a cuckolded husband myself, I have to say it's a wonderful lifestyle to choose.

Being a cuckolded husband tends to follow a few common themes. Remember, it's all role play, and at the end of the night things go back to the happy marriage most cuckolded husbands and couples have.

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Common cuckold themes

Every cuckold couple is different

One thing I've noticed over the years is that nothing is set in stone in the swingers and cuckold scene. Couples and single men all have their own ideas of what being a cuckolded husband is about.

For most, it's one thing: the husband sitting in a chair in the corner of the room watching the wife get a good fucking, and that's it. For others, read the themes above. When you're ready to meet, see our cuckold husbands personals or find cuckold contacts near you.

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Cuckolded husband questions

What is a cuckolded husband?

A cuckolded husband is a man who enjoys his wife having sex with other men, usually watching, as part of a relationship where everyone has agreed to it.

Is cuckolding just role play?

For most couples, yes. The teasing and power play are part of the fun, and at the end of the night things go back to the happy marriage most cuckold couples have.

How do couples get started with cuckolding?

Talk it through first: what you both want, what's off limits, and whether the husband will watch, join in or leave the room. Many couples start with fantasy and role play before meeting anyone.

What is forced cuckolding?

Forced cuckolding is role play where the wife and her lover take charge, for example having the husband clean up, play a sissy maid or watch without joining in. It's agreed by everyone beforehand.

What is a cuckolder?

A cuckolder is the man who has sex with the wife, often called the bull. In some couples the wife herself is the one who takes charge of her husband.

Where can we meet cuckold couples and bulls?

Join free and browse cuckold personals from couples and single men, or see our cuckold near me page for local contacts by area.

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