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Swingers' Fantasies: What Female Swingers Fantasise About

We asked our female swingers what they really fantasise about. Here's what they said.

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Fantasies first, or swinging first?

Is it sexual fantasies that first get people swinging, or does joining a UK swingers site give you all these kinky ideas? We asked our members.

What does your swinging wife fantasise about?

It's an interesting question: do people join swingers sites with definite ideas about what they want to try? Members can run polls inside the members section, so we asked them.

We asked female swingers "What do you fantasise about?", and from a man's point of view it makes interesting reading. We husbands think we know what our wives and girlfriends are thinking. Do we really?

For more polls and discussions, join us. Basic membership is free, so it won't cost you a penny to see what swingers are talking about.

So, what do female swingers fantasise about?

  • Being dominated and that can be either the wives dominating there partners or the other way round where the wives are as sexual slaves
  • Role play dressing up, after all who doesn't want a Britney Spears schoolgirl fantasy with your wife dressed in various outfits parading about for your viewing pleasure or indeed others
  • Sex with a stranger but with the added frill of the husband watching and with this the cuckold genre has grown in popularity with more and more couples getting into it
  • Threeway sex isn't something that just guys think about, although the bulk of women look towards FFM threesomes and plenty of female swingers say they're bisexual
  • Voyeurism & dogging, it makes you wonder if it wasn't a women that invented dogging as most of the postings are from women that are looking to watch others and its no wonder that the top fantasy is Voyeurism with either other couples watching them at clubs, same room sex at home or UK dogging locations
  • bukkake meets, you have to thank the internet for the interest in bukkake as this is one of the most popular sexual fantasies of women to stand in a room whilst others wank over them for more on bukkake contacts follow this link

The poll covered other fantasies too, so join up and read what women really think about when they join a swingers site.

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What you get as a member

Swingers ready to live out their fantasies get all this.

Free members

  • Fantasies are free to explore - Basic membership costs nothing.
  • Your fantasy profile - Say which fantasies you want to live out, and add photos.
  • Swingers with fantasies like yours - Browse couples and singles who share your fantasies.
  • Fantasy matches every day - Members who want the same things, suggested daily.
  • Polls and posts - Vote in members' polls, post status updates and comment on others'.
  • Real swingers, real fantasies - Free ID verification, and admins check every swinger.

Paid members also get

  • Fantasy partners near you - Look for members by town and distance who share your fantasies.
  • Talk fantasies without limits - Unlimited messaging to the swingers you like.
  • Fantasy chat - Members' chat rooms, and private group chats of up to 50 for planning.
  • Who shares your fantasies - See which swingers have liked your fantasy profile.

Swingers fantasies questions

What's the most common female swinger fantasy?

Voyeurism came out top: watching others, or being watched, at clubs, at home or dogging.

Do women fantasise about threesomes too?

Yes, often FFM threesomes, and plenty of female swingers say they're bi.

Is role play a popular fantasy?

Very. Dressing up in outfits for your partner, or others, came up a lot.

Do wives fantasise about sex with a stranger?

Many do, often with the husband watching, which is part of why cuckolding has grown.

How do members run polls?

Members can create polls and vote on others inside the members section.

Can we live out our fantasies here?

Yes. Say what you want in your profile and find couples and singles who want the same.

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