Cuckold Clean Up: Submissive Husbands & Bulls UK

Cuckold clean up: submissive husbands, bulls and the couples who want both

Cuckold clean-up sits at the sharper end of the consensual cuckold scene. After the bull has finished with the wife, the husband is expected to lick her clean, sometimes from her body, sometimes from the bull himself. For the couples who want it, the act is not an afterthought; it is the part that completes the humiliation and the power exchange. Few people would dare bring it up on a normal dating app. Here it can go in the first line of a couple's profile, and the men who answer have read it.

Submissive husbands and their wives are posting personals specifically for this arrangement, and there are men who'll gladly leave the mess and watch the husband deal with it, or tell him how. So everyone turns up knowing what happens once the sex is over.

What the couples are looking for

Most clean-up couples want a single man who understands that the husband's role continues after the bull has finished. Plenty want a bull with clean-up experience who knows when to slow down; others are just as happy with an eager first-timer who'll do as he's told. The wife's preferences usually decide the details: whether the clean-up happens immediately, whether the husband also cleans the bull, whether condoms are used, and how much verbal direction she wants.

A clean-up couple's ad usually says it plainly: photos of them both, a line saying clean-up is part of the deal, and what they won't do. A bull who replies to that has signed up for the whole evening, husband's part included, so the first few messages can deal with distance, dates, experience and limits.

Why single men join

Mention the husband licking up on a general swingers site and most couples go quiet. Men who are into it come here because the couples who want it are easy to find: they say so in their profile. A bull can look through those couples, see what they look like and what they're asking for, and write knowing exactly what the night involves.

Some bulls are after a single session; others will happily come back to the same couple if the chemistry's there. Seeing recent photos of the wife and husband, and reading precisely what part the husband plays, means nobody arrives with the wrong idea.

Posting a clean-up ad

A basic profile costs nothing. A couple sets up one profile together, says clean-up is part of what they want, sets out their likes and limits, and adds photos of both of them. A single man does the same, saying he's looking for couples who want him to leave a mess for the husband. As a free member you can browse, see suggested matches every day and send a limited number of messages; paid members can also search by town and distance and by what members are open to, handy when you want someone local.

Be clear and you'll hear from the right people. A couple might write that the wife wants a confident single man for hotel sessions, with the husband required to clean her afterwards, and that they'd like a drink together first. A single man might say he's met clean-up couples before, likes the wife to give the husband his orders, and can meet on Saturdays. Anyone it doesn't suit won't answer, so the replies you get are from people who want the same evening.

Making the meetings work

Agree everything before the night: what's allowed, whether the husband cleans the wife only or the bull as well, what happens if someone wants to stop, and a safe word that ends it at once. Because clean-up means contact with another man's semen, be honest with each other about recent sexual health checks too. Keep the first meet shorter, especially if any of you are new to this; the clean-up changes the mood once the sex is over, and you can always take it further next time.

Since it's all been agreed, nobody spends the evening wondering whether clean-up is on. The first meet is a chance to see if the wife is relaxed and whether the three of you click, and good photos and a frank profile take care of most of that beforehand.

Couples who want the husband to clean up after the bull, and the men happy to be that bull, already know what they want. Say it in your profile, browse the clean-up ads below, and if you're new to the husband's side of it, our cuckolded husband guide is a good place to start.

Cuckold clean up ads

To give you an idea of the clean up ads being posted, here's a selection, along with free access to more from around the UK. There are pages and pages of them, from couples looking for single men to swinging events. Paid members can narrow a search to what members are open to and see clean-up couples only.

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• (36, 43) Bi Male, Bi-curious Female UK, England: Buckinghamshire, Aylesbury

  we are looking for an experienced Master / Cuckold to explore our limits and meet with dominant males. Her holes are yours to be used and with fulfill your fantasies. We are both bisexual and can be used either alone or as a couple and I can watch or listen by closely. We are unshockable and broad minded and looking for males that will fuck her hard and leave a sloppy mess for me to clean up when your finished fucking my wife. She would also like to attend a group meet with heavy cum finish and wants to enjoy watchig me cleaning up muiltple cum loads from her. I enjoy being humiliated/degraded as a cuckold husband and watching others, I'm also willing to have his limits pushed. Contact Members - Click Here

• (56, 48) Bi Male, Bi Female UK, Scotland: Aberdeenshire, Inverurie :

  We are a cuckold couple looking for bulls but you must be VWE + thick and will fuck me and I will dress to please you. Husbnd will be taking care of clean up afterwards. We can travel and use hotels. We prefer to meet for a drink and a chat first just to make sure we are on the same wavelength and this can be arranged for a midweek meet, hopefully freeing up for some fun on Saturday. PS: we do have to plan meets because due to children, so we cant just do quick meets. Contact Members - Click Here

• (54, 51) Bi Male, Straight Female UK, England: North Yorkshire, York

  Horny couple thats seeking well hung guy for regular cuckold sex fun. Thanks for reading our profile. We are a horny mid 40's couple that wants to meet with a local genuine guy thats well hung and will meet with us to fuck me wife.. We are clean and discrete couple that excets the same in return. I'm a bisexual male and happy to have some involvement but we are not after one offs but building a long lasting friendship with male. My wife is slim and needless to say has a preference for bareback meets and loves to feel thick, throbbing cock thrusting inside her and then cuming into her willing wet hole. Also enjoys D/P. Contact Members - Click Here

• (24, 22) Straight Male, Bi Female : Hertfordshire, Harpenden

  cuckold couple seeking males with a bi-male thats in his fifties and straight female thats much younger. cuckold enjoys waatching or sometimes she'll meet with males behind his back! The male is orally bisexual and will suck cock, rim males to order whilst I watch. We both enjoy the S&M scene and these manifest themselves by being submissiveness on both parts - Male will take mild pain, CBT, rimming, but not mandatory, whilst my enjoyment is mild bondage being tied to the bed and used as pleased. Our age preferred is males over 35 and under 50! and our ultimate aim Contact Members - Click Here

• (56, 54) Bi Male, Straight Female UK, England: Hertfordshire, Hemel Hempstead

  Kinky cuckold with a bi male in Herts thats seeking Bulls for lovely wife. I love being cuckolded by my gorgeous wife and then offer clean up afterwards as I love fresh cum especally if its been inside my wife or over her as I love humiliation of her making swollow some other guys cum Contact Members - Click Here

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