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Couples Seeking Threesomes: How to Meet Couples in the UK

Why couples looking for a third aren't on Reddit, and how single men and women get replies from threesome couples.

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How do you meet couples for threesomes?

How to meet couples for threesomes: it's the kind of question you constantly see popping up on Quora or Reddit, often posted by a guy hoping a local couple will see it and want to meet. Does it happen? No. Why? Read on.

Threesomes are without doubt one of the most popular parts of the wife swapping and swingers scene, with couples and singles, both men and unicorn women, joining up to arrange threesomes.

The question many single men ask is just how to meet couples for threesomes, and it probably won't come as a surprise that most, if not all, Threesome Personals are arranged through swingers websites, because that's where the couples are!

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We've been around swapping couples and singles since before the term Swingers was thought up, hence our name, Wife Swapping.

With thousands of single men, women and couples as members, it's not a question of whether you'll arrange a meet with a couple, but how soon. It all starts with joining and posting your personals ad so couples can contact you.

Make your threesome personals stand out

So many couples and singles are looking for Threesomes that you need to stand out from the crowd so members reply to your messages. That means a decent personals ad that tells others about your experience and the kind of couples you're looking for, and not forgetting photos!

We even give you free access to members below, so you can see for yourself what couples and singles are looking for. You don't need to join to look. You can't message them without joining, but even that's free. Try us today: you've nothing to lose and couples looking for threesomes to meet.

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What you get as a member

Singles hoping to be a couple's third, and couples looking for one, can do all this.

Free members

  • Couples and singles join free - Becoming a basic member costs you nothing.
  • An ad couples will answer - Tell couples about your experience and the threesome you want, and add good photos.
  • Couples seeking a third - Browse the couples on the site who want a single man or woman to join them.
  • Couples picked for you - Every day we suggest couples who match what your ad says.
  • Reach out to couples - A set number of messages to couples each day, and free replies to VIP members.
  • Prove you're the real deal - Free ID verification, and admin checks on every couple's and single's profile.

Paid members also get

  • Find couples by location - Search couples by town, distance, experience and what they're open to.
  • Message couples freely - As many messages to couples as you like, with no daily cap.
  • Chat with couples - The members' chat rooms, and private group chats you create for up to 50.
  • Couples who liked you - See which couples have liked your threesome ad.

Couples seeking threesomes questions

Why don't threesome posts on Reddit or Quora work?

Because that's not where couples look. Couples wanting a third post their ads and reply to singles on swingers sites.

What is a unicorn in a threesome?

A single woman, usually bi, who joins a couple. Unicorns are in big demand, so couples often look for a long time.

What do couples look for in a third?

Someone whose ad is clear about their experience and the kind of couple they want, with decent photos.

Can single men meet couples for threesomes?

Yes. Plenty of couples are looking for a man for an MMF, and they say in their ads what they want from him.

Can I see couples' ads before joining?

Yes. The free link below shows couples and singles without joining. To message them you'll need to join, which is also free.

Should I mention my experience in my ad?

Yes. Couples like to know whether you've had a threesome before or are new to it, so say so in your personals ad.

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