How to Spot Dogging Couples: Signals and Etiquette

How do you tell if a couple are dogging?

It's not a daft question: when you pull into a car park, how do you tell if a couple are dogging or not? You can't exactly ask, and the last thing you want to do is walk up to a car and say "Fancy me fucking the wife?". You know how that would end!

When my wife and I started dogging, we didn't know what signals to give, and spent many nights sat in car parks wondering how to let others know we were ready.

That was before the internet took over the dogging scene, with members-only contacts sites where people share locations. That really brought dogging to life, helping single men spot dogging couples and arrange meets in advance.

The dogging signals

So what are the dogging signals? Here are a few, along with what I'd call dogging etiquette. Treat these as a rough guide and starting point for newcomers.

• Car Interior lights ..... By leaving the lights on once parked up means your happy for others to watch you. If your looking for voyeur dogging sex then try this
• Flashing..... and I'm not talking about the wife getting out and flashing, although this often happens!! ( see dogging wives photos ) By parking up and flashing your lights either brake or headlights means your ready for meets
• Open windows .... by opening windows means your happy for contacts to get involved and by opening windows is directly inviting contacts to join in
• Open your car door .......it's the most used and open invitation for others to get into the car and join you for sex.

Those are just a few. I'd say interior lights on is the most used, and with a window open it's a strong sign the couple are looking for a dogging meet. If you arrange meets in advance by message, as many people do, you can tell each other your car details and just look out for the car.

Tips if you're new to dogging

• Take rubbers with you .......pretty common sense when you think about it as whilst dogging is great fun making sure you don't catch anything is paramount. Safe sex dogging IS the only way to play
• Take some lube with you ...... a bit of lube will make sex far more comfortable as whilst we will all get excited over the idea of fucking some other guys wife the nerves can sometimes kick in and this could mean the wife is a little dry, plus with using a condom it helps a lot
• Wallets, leave them at home.....If your going to hide something in a car where would you put it? under the drivers seat, maybe passengers or perhaps glove box, well lets face it we all know those places and should someone see you leaving your car its a perfect time to check out what you've left behind so leave the wallet at home

Arrange it in advance

If you want to meet dogging contacts, don't leave it to guesswork: message members and agree whatever signal you like.

Join us today: free membership lets you browse contacts and message members.

Free Access to dogging contacts

What you get as a member

Doggers who'd rather arrange it than guess get these.

Free members

• New doggers join free - Basic membership is free, including messaging.
• Your dogging signals profile - Say what signals you use and what you're after, with photos.
• Dogging couples to contact - Browse couples and singles who go dogging.
• Doggers matched to you - Each day we suggest doggers who fit your profile.
• Agree signals by message - Send a set number of messages daily to arrange signals and car details.
• Trustworthy doggers - Free ID verification, and admin checks on each dogging profile.

Paid members also get

• Dogging couples by distance - Paid members can search by town and distance from them.
• Unlimited arranging - Message every dogging couple you like to set up a meet.
• Dogging groups - Set up a private group chat for up to 50 to plan a night out.
• Couples who liked your dogging ad - See which dogging couples have liked you.

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